Men, ejaculation and orgasms what we all need to know?
A lot of men get to a point in their sexual development where they start to understand that “just to get off” isn’t satisfying for himself or partner and start to look for more. This is common. In their heart and after looking at things online know there is more from some of the videos or articles they will see, but just do not know how to get to that level of pleasure. Tantra helps with getting to that next level of pleasure for you and your partner. Firstly, learn how to control your ejaculation and to send your sexual energies up to the highest centre of the brain. Known as “kundalini” energy in Tantra.
When you mater the Kundalini energy and you can send this along the spine. A guy will be able to increase the many sexual pleasures for his partner and himself and take their level of love making to another level. With mastering the sexual energy movement through the body, you can control when you ejaculate. With this mastered you are free to make love “with holding “the pressure to ejaculate.
Awareness and sensitivity
Men`s awareness and sensitivity are increasingly heightened to the refined satisfaction of lovemaking. He his in a different mindset, which allows him to deliver “full-body “and “multiple orgasms”. There are many benefits of a “full body orgasms”, this releases his body from tension and stresses, opens his heart, heals the prostate gland and connects him deeper with himself and lover. In experiencing multiple orgasms, and by “multiple” would do not necessarily mean “multiple ejaculations”. One the learning to move Kundalini energy around his body he will be able to have orgasms and not ejaculate at all, commonly known as a “none-ejaculatory” or “dry” orgasm.
As you master the practice of Tantra and the levels of energy movement, view the Lingam (penis) as a wand of deeper love making with your partner. The deeper the connection with your partner will take you to higher states of orgasmic and ecstasy pleasure you both can achieve. Allowing you both as a couple to build your heightened levels of ecstasy together.
Male types of orgasm
There is nothing better than the feeling of an orgasm. Our brain goes into overdrive, as we experience erotic feelings and thoughts, our toes curl and legs shake with excitement. We may think that every orgasm is the same (some are much more powerful). There are five different types of male orgasms.
The Ejaculation Orgasm
The ejaculation orgasm, most known as the “standard one” and the one most men become familiar with as they start to self-masturbate. This type of orgasm can also be achieved by both penetration and orally. So, let us look how we achieve an ejaculation orgasm! When a guy is stimulated orally or by himself, he gains an erection, with both sides of the penis filling with blood (known as the corpora). The penis grows in size and shape. The scrotums become tight and the penis becomes hard.The prostate gland and pelvic floor muscles contract when the male reaches the point of climax causing him to ejaculate. When a guy ejaculates this is usually 5 per cent sperm and 95 per cent fluid. This orgasm is what a guy will experience as part of a Lingam massage.
Full Body Orgasm
A full body orgasm is as exactly as it suggests, taking your whole body into a full state of pleasure. This can be experienced in a one on one body massage or tantric massage. To achieve a whole-body orgasm, the therapist will stimulate your g spot with a prostate massager, caress your upper body and thighs whilst gliding on top of you. A whole-body orgasm does not mean the end of the massage like the ejaculation orgasm and can often be done in the middle of the appointment.
Multiple Orgasms
Multiple orgasms will come with practice, as they say practice makes perfect. Having regular erotic massages will heighten the chance of achieving multiple orgasms. Your first orgasm that you will experience is an ejaculation orgasm. Your therapist will then break from these sexual techniques and swop to Swedish massage strokes allowing the body to recover and get ready for round two. Most guys are not able to produce semen the second time round, however it does not stop “the feel good” hormone oxytocin rushing to the brain. Feeling adventurous then why not go for round three?
A Pelvic Orgasm
A pelvic orgasm is most commonly achieved during a Tantric Massage with a technique commonly referred to as edging. The masseur will start with areas of the body that are less sensitive (neck, shoulders and back) before slowly working to your inner and upper thigh and finally your erogenous zone. When he can see you are reaching the point of no return, he will move his hands to other parts of the body before repeating the action. Building up the intensity pleasure giving the most amazing orgasm EVER.
The Prostate Orgasm
Not many men realise that the prostate gland is the G spot of his body. If this is stimulated, you can achieve a flurry of orgasms. These orgasms are only usually achieved as part of a prostate massage. This starts with an all over body massage to relax and unwind you physical and mentally. One your masseur feels you are completely relaxed he will slide a prostate massager in and slowly caress your prostate gland. This will feel like nothing you have felt before, producing an extremely height point of climax. Expect your whole body to shake when experiencing a prostate orgasm
Men and Edging
Not to be mistaken with the gardening term edging. In a sexual terminology, this refers to bringing someone else or yourself to the point of orgasm and then releasing the grip and moving the concentration to another part of the body. Postponing the orgasm, changing the sexual stimulation, and slowing the strokes.
Edging is often described as self-pleasuring. Where you masturbate to just before reaching orgasm and then slow the strokes down. You then build the stimulation up again to the point or orgasm and then slow down the strokes again. There are many styles of edging to build the energies in the body, the bottlecap, making fire, the juicer, cock-u-pressure to name a few, you may also want to add an old faithful stroke in. This technique with practice can allow you to edge for a fair length of time. Often described by many people that when you finally give in the orgasm is something else.
Edging has also taken off as a sexual activity amongst couples as well.
So why edge?
A lot of people ask what the point of edging is as a sexual activity that does not end up with you coming to climax or release. We are often taught that the aim of a sexual activity like masturbation is to climax and ejaculate.
There are many reasons why edging is pleasurable and can add to your sexual experiences.
When we are having sex, we often avoid the pleasure our bodies can give us. One of the learning findings from edging is that you pay close attention to the sexual arousal in your body, or if your edging your partner it means you have to be able to read his arousal state.
With edging this can take the added pressure of the big finish and focusses on what is happening now. Many straight couples worry during sexual activity on how its going to end, which can be a problem for sexual relationship that has the same format that works.
There is nothing wrong with finding a format that work, however travelling the same route every day you will stop seeing the changes in an ever-changing society. This is the same with sex.
To edge is to be in touch with the energies flowing through your body, to be able to achieve that orgasm beyond any other you need to be in touch with your body`s responses and your partner`s too.
How do you do it ?
The technique of edging can be added into any sexual activity. Most expert edger’s will tell you that using a hand for stimulating the lingam will give you the best control.
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