What is a yoni massage?
The Sanskrit word for the vagina is yoni and translated as “Sacred Temple” or “Sacred Space”. The vagina in Tantra practice is seen as a perspective of respect and love. An important thing for men to learn.
Before starting the Yoni massage, the masseur should provide a space for the woman to feel safe and relaxed, so she can experience great pleasure from her vagina and enter a high state of arousal. If the partner has accompanied her for the massage they will witness a special moment from the pleasure she is being given. A yoni massage is a great activity to build intimacy and trust between a couple and can be used as a form of “safe sex”. Some sex and massage therapist may perform to assist women to break trauma or sexual blocks.
During a yoni massage the goal is not to achieve an orgasm. The main goal is to pleasure and massage the yoni. When orgasm occurs is more satisfying and intense and more expanded. Allow the woman to enjoy the massage she is receiving and to relax her inner self.
Receiving a yoni massage
The masseur once your turn onto you back will raise your head so you can look down at your genitals and up at him.. The knees slightly bent and the legs slightly spread apart exposing the genitals for the massage. This allows easy access to the vagina (yoni) and the rest of the body.
Before the masseur touches you’re body, you will both start with some deep relaxing breathing, throughout the process remember to keep this rhythm.
You will feel gentle massage strokes over the mound and outer lips of the vagina. Enjoy the feelings and sensation you are experiencing form this.
As the thumb and index finger squeeze the outer lip, and the fingers slide over each lip. You will feel the same movement on the inner lips of your vagina. If you want the technique increasing or decreasing let your masseur know. Resist from talking and concentrate on the sensations your body is experiencing. The masseur will slowly touch the lips with an ultimate vibrating tool to take you to another level.
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